Being a human is hard. Being a parent is even harder.
Hi! I’m Deb Blum, Conscious Parent Coach and Life Coach/Counselor.
I work with all humans, but I specialize in working with moms…probably because I am one. And because moms give so much to everyone else and need someone to love and nurture them.
I’m passionate about helping moms feel alive, satisfied, fulfilled, supported, and connected within the container of “the family”. Being a mom is a role, but if we aren’t careful, it can be all-consuming and we can wake up one day feeling like we’ve given everything and have nothing left to give. And hot damn, we put so much freakin’ pressure on ourselves! Right?
Can I show you how to be more gentle and loving towards yourself?
Feeling connected, supported, safe and loved are some of our core needs as humans. I want all moms to feel this way in their lives…in their relationships.
If you’re being honest, I’ll bet you’ve had periods of time where you’ve felt disconnected from your partner. And, at least sometimes, felt impatient, frustrated, and maybe even yelled at your kids – they can be little buggers! Perhaps there have been more times than you’d like to admit where you’ve felt low, a little lost, out of sorts, left out, unsupported, dissatisfied, and not as fulfilled as you’d like?
I help moms create the relationships they want – with themselves (first and foremost), with their long-term partner, and with their kids. The kinds of relationships that are mutually fulfilling and feed our souls.
Because I’ve always believed that when mom is happy and fulfilled, everyone else thrives (and vice versa)!
Would you agree?
I do this work because when my kids started elementary school, my life went into a complete tailspin – I nearly lost my marriage, I had a personal breakdown, and had to face some hard shit in order to pull myself out of it and save my marriage. I was fortunate to have some amazing people by my side to help me to create all that I have today. To show me what it’s like to feel fulfilled on a soul level.
And I want you to feel fulfilled on a soul level.
Seriously, why should moms sacrifice themselves to raise their kids? Can’t we have our own hopes, dreams, desires, and experiences AND raise amazing kids? (Yes! In fact, perhaps it’s the best way to raise amazing kids.)
I’m not talking about doing crazy stuff (though that’s okay too) and I’m not talking about abandoning our responsibilities as a parent. I am talking about knowing ourselves, asking for what we want, standing up for ourselves, accepting the parts of us that we have been told are not good enough, being less influenced by what society says we should and shouldn’t do, healing our childhood hurts, and finding inner peace and happiness.
Loving ourselves, being compassionate and accepting towards ourselves, and standing up for ourselves has a profound impact on who our kids become as adults.
Learning the art of self-love is powerful role modeling.
I’ll be honest, it’s not that I have it all figured out or that I’m an expert. I’m working on my relationships, self-love, my healing, and feeding my soul every day. But what I am is deeply passionate about it. I live and breathe this stuff…I can’t ever get enough.
I know your soul is craving more.
Walk with me. We can do this together. Let me be by your side. Let me care for you as you find your way back to yourself.
Would you like to talk more about this? Schedule something here.